Notes
- Content warnings
- Backstory (IOP)
- IOP after burnout got too bad
- Learned a lot of skills that apply all over
- Opposite of shame is pride, thus opposite action is to talk about it (thus pride, destigmatization, etc)
- Name emotion to address reaction/expression
- Started tying to writing re: Toledot
- Disclaimer
- IANAD
- A lot of these are my interpretations
- Only hope I can help by sharing
- Definitions
- SUDs (esp re engaging w/ skills)
- Activation vs depression
- Shotgun approach
- Fancy names and acronyms are built to let them come to mind more easily
- Vulnerabilities
- PLEASE skill
- Physical iLlness
- Eating
- Avoid mood-altering substances (but take meds)
- Sleep
- Exercise
- Reactive skills (low to high SUDs)
- Cognitive distortions/negative self-talk
- perfectionism (not good enough)/editing in place, shame
- check the facts, opposite action (crappy flash fiction), chain analysis, “1st thought = conditioning, 2nd thought = choice, build habits to modify choices”
- Executive dysfunction
- writer’s block
- IMPROVE/ACCEPTS, cope-ahead, opposite action (flash fiction, no editing)
- Rumination
- slow velocity, can’t start, catastrophizing
- wise-mind, radical acceptance, opposite action (tell yourself you’re doing so)
- Emotional distress
- not understanding why can’t write, burnout, catastrophizing
- STOP, willingness, emotional wheel
- Cognitive distortions/negative self-talk
- Proactive skills
- Mindfulness
- aspirations
- gratitude
- one-mindfulness
- Habit-building/exercises
- intentionality
- proactivity
- Dialectical thinking
- Importance of ‘and’
- Accepting growth
- Self care
- FAST/self respect
- Building positives/accepting success
- Mindfulness
- It’s all kind of about self-worth, because without that, it’s easy to get stuck
Handouts
All handouts taken from DBT Skills Training Handouts and Worksheets by Marsha M. Linehan.
Selected handouts to go along with this talk: